Kris Wilson-Williams
Having worked with LGBTQ youth possibly longer than anyone else in the state, Kris has had the privilege of being there for the happy moments (like weddings) but also had the burden of dealing with tough issues (like suicide prevention). She’s faced a lot of challenges since she started this work in 2003 and in many ways she may just be getting started.
What makes you feel proud?
Watching my seeds grow and queer youth celebrating themselves.
What keeps you up at night?
Worrying that I can’t do enough fast enough... and I don’t want to lose another kid.
Who is the biggest influence in your life? Why?
That has to be my wife! She has taught me that better is better, which has helped me appreciate the small changes. She also pushes me to be the best version of myself because it not only benefits me and my work, but also my children.
“Birds of a feather flock together, so if your birds don’t represent you, find new birds.”
What’s been the biggest obstacle in your life so far?
Being a more masculine presenting woman and gay in Oklahoma can present many obstacles, so this is a really loaded question for me. But, my biggest obstacle has been trying to create and fund a healthy space for LGBTQ youth and family.
What’s the single biggest problem you’d like to solve in your community?
Self-hatred. My community needs healing and it starts with self.
What’s the best advice you’ve ever received?
Birds of a feather flock together, so if your birds don’t represent you, find new birds.
kris is one of 100 women we have featured in the inaugural issue of Hundred Magazine. To learn more about her and the other 99 women, buy the issue.
