Cassi Poor
An urbanist who commits her time and energy to building a city centered around people, we will likely see the effects of Cassi’s commitment to community for years to come in Oklahoma City.
What makes you feel proud?
The Oklahoma Standard really embodies what drives me. The spirit of helping others, leaving places better than we found them and a focus on building a better future.
What’s been the biggest obstacle in your life so far?
When I was in college, my Dad was arrested and convicted on drug charges. I knew he had a problem but we never really talked about it. Watching my Mom, my brother and going through it myself was very difficult. It has resulted in a lot of introspection and I blamed myself a lot for things that I know now weren’t my fault. I didn’t see it at the time but it made me grow up fast. The good news is that my Dad is clean now and in a good place. Everyone has traumas in their life and it’s helped me have empathy for others in their times of need.
One year from today, how do you hope you’re different?
I lost a good friend a few months ago to COVID. He was 33 years old. In celebrating his life, one common theme that his friends all said was that he was always so intentional with his relationships. He’d never miss a chance to celebrate or hang out with you. It was inspirational. I’m trying to be more like him and make that same effort to be intentional, to make time for those that mean the most to me and to ensure that they know just how much I love and support them.
“Everyone has traumas in their life and it’s helped me have empathy for others in their times of need.”
What’s the best advice you’ve ever received?
Give back better than you’re given. Leave it better than you found it.